Circle your typical answer.

True/ False   1. In a healthy relationship, the more I take care of myself; the better it is for the relationship.

True/ False  2. When there is a conflict, I am quick to own my part of the problem.

True/ False  3. The end of a relationship means that there is something wrong with me.

True/ False  4. I usually hide who I really am until I am sure about the relationship.

True/ False  5. I usually put my best foot forward in the beginning of a relationship so the other person will like me more.

True/ False  6. I’d rather agree with someone, even though I don’t really agree, than cause a conflict.

True/ False  7. I am usually more concerned about whether a person likes me, than whether I really like that person.

True/ False  8. There is nothing healthy about arguing.

True/ False  9. Dating one person exclusively is a decision that I want to make independent of my partner’s decision.

True/ False 10. Being in a relationship means balancing my separate-ness needs with my together-ness needs.